At Rara Avis Objects, we are more than a jewelry company—we are a community committed to empowering women and raising awareness that abuse is not always physical.

A man who controls, belittles, manipulates, or rages at his partner is not “misunderstood” or simply “going through a rough patch.” He is an abuser. Abuse is not a mood swing; it is a set of learned behaviors rooted in the belief that it is acceptable to harm the woman who trusts him most.

Emotional and psychological abuse is often invisible, yet profoundly damaging. It appears in patterns—lies, strategic omissions, silent treatment, intimidation, prolonged rages, character attacks, or endless lectures—all designed to destabilize a partner and keep her doubting herself.

These are not accidents. They are tactics. They are not about love, but about control. When someone uses rage, manipulation, or withdrawal as weapons, he shows you who he is.

Our mission is to help women recognize these patterns early, name them clearly, and remember: love should never cause confusion, fear, or pain. Respect, safety, and dignity are not luxuries—they are the foundation of a healthy relationship.